What makes you different?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Who writes and reads novels nowadays?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Have you ever witnessed political correctness harm someone?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

What makes you YOU.

Trump is shot, tackled by SS agents, yet then stands, defiant, with fist high, and 52 hours later, walks into the Republican Convention to thunderous applause. Is there anything that can stop this man, who loves his country? Does he get your vote?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Is it normal to hate my dog, but feel too guilty to get rid of him?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

What if he’d come outside?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

—— which songs do certain kuorans remind you of?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Agree?

Breast cancer makes Hull man 'feel like an imposter' - BBC

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

What's a joke you haven't used yet, but are dying to share?

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Is BPD real or just an excuse?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

So, keep on experimenting.

Why do the majority of feminists hate men (not all feminists)?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Why do some straight men like to suck dick but don't find other males attractive?

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

What are some alternatives to wearing a bra? Why do some women feel pressure to wear bras even though there may not be any benefits?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Can you make it?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.